Why I got engaged at 19
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wow girlypops. Was not expecting to post this video but...here is why I got engaged at 19!!! I'm a fiancée now!
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  • MargauMonteyRibera
    MargauMonteyRibera

    Lemme guess, you Christian?

  • Blue Berry2a
    Blue Berry2a

    The Fuck you keep talking.

  • Roshana Uthayakumar
    Roshana Uthayakumar

    i was never against this but ive never looked at it like that, especially when ppl used to get married really young. your very lucky to have found the one and know that hes the one, im happy for you!

  • Annie Silveny
    Annie Silveny

    Its really beautiful how young women like her have the confidence to talk about her fears and self improvement. love you haley. hope you have a wonderful marriage :)

  • Kayleigh Howard
    Kayleigh Howard

    I love how you have grown and stuff I've been watching your videos for two years now and I am so happy for you both!!!! 💕💕

  • Tales toTell
    Tales toTell

    I think that waiting until you're married for sex encourages people to get married young.

  • Rolyn Grace Bugas
    Rolyn Grace Bugas

    The reason is obvious.

  • youngboy bandit
    youngboy bandit

    Beautiful personality 🚀✨

  • cherish_chimx2
    cherish_chimx2

    Honestly if you're financially stable early marriage isn't unreasonable at all. Divorce sucks but if it doesn't work out y'all can still eat and pay the bills yknow

  • Sophia Stewart
    Sophia Stewart

    Engaged at 20 and will be married by 22/23

  • Oh Beloved One
    Oh Beloved One

    Girl all the respect for you!! Might've been scary posting but I really love this video

  • colton Quinn
    colton Quinn

    YEAH

  • Alejandra Pineda
    Alejandra Pineda

    congrats on your engagement Haley! I am 19 and engaged too!!!! Also been asked if I am going to have kids right away, especially because of the culture in my country haha (Honduras)

  • Lorelai Gilmore
    Lorelai Gilmore

    Im so happy for you.

  • Anastasia Hill
    Anastasia Hill

    Congrats 🎊

  • DJ Mary hope
    DJ Mary hope

    Im engaged and I'm 19 too And I know how you feel ❤im soooooo happy for you My life was not that easy too and now that I'm getting married I feel so bless Wish you all the best girl ❤

  • Noelle Polk
    Noelle Polk

    Working instead of college isn’t unconventional honestly

  • Caitlyn Daniel
    Caitlyn Daniel

    Girl I was engaged AND got married at 19. (6 Month engagement) Don’t let anyone tell you what stage of life you should be in. You know your heart and you know when you’re ready. Married life is awesome. We were told, well... I was told I was too young, he’s 21. We were told we moved too fast. But we knew what we were ready for. Marriage requires sacrifice, service, and selflessness. If you can do those things, y’all can do this.

  • Nanii
    Nanii

    I got engaged at 18 married at 19 🙂❤️ congratulations!!

  • Mariette
    Mariette

    It’s funny how people are different. Hayley’s 19 and engaged and here I am at 21 still asking my mom if I can sleep at my friends house 😂. I’m asian btw, filipino to be specific, so this is normal to us.

  • McKayla Stacey
    McKayla Stacey

    my mom got engaged at 19 and she's still really happy!! It's totally okay

  • Zosia Piontek
    Zosia Piontek

    Honey, sweetie, sex is soooo much more than 5% of the relationship

  • Zosia Piontek
    Zosia Piontek

    Honey, sweetie, sex is soooo much more than 5% of the relationship

  • Noor Barsik
    Noor Barsik

    I hope it goes differently for you, but sex after getting divorced is %100 better!!!

  • The Wolf
    The Wolf

    I'm only 22 and still single! How'd you get engaged when you're 19?!

  • Ruhama Belay
    Ruhama Belay

    rsloft.info/loft/video/qpObu27KyoOzgag watch this omg

  • Kayla Gianna
    Kayla Gianna

    Am not a hater or anything but does anyone else think its wierd that this vedio has 2m veiws and only 15k coments

  • Jessica
    Jessica

    Haley, My fiancé proposed to me at age 19 as well so your not alone 😊 it’s the best thing ever finding the one you love this early in life 😍😍

  • Katlego Natasha
    Katlego Natasha

    M 19 and he recently proposed....I searched proposed at 19 to see how people deal with it😂❤

  • Reena Parida
    Reena Parida

    Congratulations and best of luck for your future

  • Daniella Edgecumbe
    Daniella Edgecumbe

    Congratulations, just found your channel and I’m 21 and I’m getting married in 3 weeks. We have been engaged for a year and a half and are both Christian and see marriage the same way. Everyone has their own opinions but it’s lovely to see how happy you are!

  • Julie
    Julie

    You're awesome & amazing!! Congrats!!!🎉🍾🎊🎈

  • Doshe Ribeiro
    Doshe Ribeiro

    Congratulations on your engagement Girl!!! do what you want until you are happy

  • Jinkook Kookie
    Jinkook Kookie

    Life is short do what know

  • Jinkook Kookie
    Jinkook Kookie

    I was watching her when I was 8 I am 13 turning 14 I am so happy for you😌✨

  • Filip Hallberg
    Filip Hallberg

    no no no of course not because youre a gold digger no no defentily

  • ami
    ami

    Married at 20, nearly a year later and wouldn't change it for a minute! Different people live different lives, when your ready for marriage your ready, age doesn't make a difference!

  • Leah Lil10
    Leah Lil10

    YESSSS I'm so excited for you!!!!!!!!!! Its a beautiful ring! And I am so excited for you and Ryans marriage! 🌟🥺❤️

  • liniage Zoé
    liniage Zoé

    la moitié de cette vidéo est une superbe déclaration d'amour. C'est tout ce que je retiens. C'est beau

  • Lena Rubinstein
    Lena Rubinstein

    congrats 💖💖💖🥳🥳🥳🎉🎉🎉

  • dabbin' darlin'
    dabbin' darlin'

    I met my man in 2014, moved in 3 months into our relationship, got married in 2018. I was 18 when I moved in with him.

  • Harmoni Baker
    Harmoni Baker

    its like she's 18 getting married but 19 your opinion

  • Harmoni Baker
    Harmoni Baker

    why r u getting engaged at 19? ik its ur opinion but I would wait until like 30 or 25 or something

    • Harmoni Baker
      Harmoni Baker

      @M G cool

    • M G
      M G

      girl this whole video is the answer to your question

    • Leah Lil10
      Leah Lil10

      @Harmoni Baker yeah ❤️❤️

    • Harmoni Baker
      Harmoni Baker

      @Leah Lil10 that's what I said

    • Leah Lil10
      Leah Lil10

      Its her choice to do what she wants to do. ❤️

  • Alana Adams
    Alana Adams

    I honestly can’t wait till a year from now and they react to this video. I’m literally UWW’ing just thinking about it

  • Maddie Fishblob
    Maddie Fishblob

    2:21 yea she’s totally right. My grandma got engaged when she was 17 purely because she felt bad for the guy 😂 at first she said no, but then when she realized he would end up coming to America while still being _single_ she called him back. “Do you want to marry me now?” “I guess so?” 2 months later they were wed 😂🤦‍♀️ now I’m 17 and....I’ve basically never talked to a boy 🤷‍♀️

  • Lyracat
    Lyracat

    I’m jealous of how much you have your life together at only 19 like how

  • Leonor Falcão
    Leonor Falcão

    I'm so thankful that i've came across this video. I'm 17 and I believe in chastity and every time someone finds out about that they get all confused, asking "so you're a virgin?!", "do you really think you'll find someone who'll wait?"... It's difficult to explain sometimes and it hurts to think that maybe ill never find that person, but after hearing your story i feel like i'm understood! thank you

  • Anna Gate
    Anna Gate

    I'm so excited for you like I can't wait for all the WEDDING videos🥰🥰🤗

  • Denise Gal
    Denise Gal

    Reminds me of my relationship ❤ i love this

  • Raj Devendra
    Raj Devendra

    I'm 19 & I haven't even had my first kiss! 😅💁🏽‍♂️ But it's ok & it's also totally understandable to get married at 19 🙌💯❤️

  • Erika Martinez Magana
    Erika Martinez Magana

    We all have our own life paths and we CHOOSE what is best for us. My advice to you, build a strong foundation for your marriage so that not even the test of time can knock it down. I wish the best of luck on your journey called life and sending blessings for a long and happy life together.

  • HardlyEntertaining
    HardlyEntertaining

    My sister and her husband just got married at 19

  • Asger Abraham
    Asger Abraham

    I don't care about when people get married so just stop it doesn't matter when you get married.

  • your fav stalker
    your fav stalker

    :( wanna get married at 18 but my bf says no

  • Mistakes Were Made
    Mistakes Were Made

    YES

  • fartdog 64
    fartdog 64

    You better keep that love ten years later and not make your kids have to see their parents split.

  • Jasmine Hassell
    Jasmine Hassell

    My fiancé asked for my mom and dads blessing also. I wish you all the best in your future.

  • Claudy H
    Claudy H

    my parents met when they were 13 and got engaged at 19 and married at 21 and they’re now 51!! honestly if you’re in love then you have got nothing to loose💕

  • Anissa Alvarado
    Anissa Alvarado

    I got pregnant at 19, and now I’m 20 awaiting his arrival in October. And my boyfriend already plans on marrying me. Everyone has different timelines. ❤️

    • Zaczz
      Zaczz

      Congrats!

  • Ariana Snyder
    Ariana Snyder

    Just curious, how long have you guys been together.... I'm new to your channel and I support you all the way... my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 yrs and were both 19 and currently planning our wedding as well. Overall I just want you and Ryan to know that I support you guys.

  • T Sdz
    T Sdz

    aaaa congrats!!!

  • Charlotte Elsasser
    Charlotte Elsasser

    I think you are adorable and I respect your journey but I just wanted to say that you don’t need justify your young marriage by saying you’ve lived unconventional lives. Truthfully, dropping out of college/not going to college and working full time is very very common and doesn’t necessarily mean your life isn’t like most peoples. Yes, your career is unconventional but I just wanted to say that a lot of people are on the same journey as you! You’re already so confident and excited so don’t focus on comparing yourself to others!

  • Alia Hassan
    Alia Hassan

    Congratulations but are you sure if you're than go ahead.

  • We McLaughlins
    We McLaughlins

    When you consider that there is no societal pressure (save a few cultural/traditional exceptions) pushing young couples to get married (no one is saying "you have to") I think we need to greatly respect when someone young takes on the commitment of marriage. The irony is that naysayers often attack that person's maturity when, if marriage is a means to maturity, as I argue it is, this is actually a sign of greater maturity!

  • Payton Stark
    Payton Stark

    My grandma had my dad at seventeen or eighteen. Her and my grandpa weren’t planning it but I still think about how successful my dad is. If they didn’t have him I wouldn’t be here. And he turned out really well lol.

  • Olivia Lyons
    Olivia Lyons

    my family friend got married at 18 so this is perfectly fine

  • Riley Cross
    Riley Cross

    Dudeeee whose ready for the “ how I lost my v-card “ story time. ^^^

    • Zaczz
      Zaczz

      She’s not gonna be the relatable virgin pretty soon 😂

  • Yamileth Contreras
    Yamileth Contreras

    Congratulations Haley!! I’ve been subscribed to you since your dancing days. Marriage is awesome. I got married 7 weeks ago at 20. 💛

  • Logic_Rage
    Logic_Rage

    Congratulations 🥳

  • Kay K
    Kay K

    Just another Christian couple getting engaged while they are teenagers so they can bang 😂🥀

  • M p
    M p

    Dude by 19 I had my son. With my boyfriend to which I’ve been with for 6 years! I’m basically married. Yesss! When you know you know 💕

  • Gea Badelles
    Gea Badelles

    Wooooow. All the best! Love the spirit. Just recently got engaged too! 😍🥰 i just made a vlog about my realizations 🥰

  • yailene leyva
    yailene leyva

    i.....honestly can’t wait for this to crash n burn

  • a girl has no name _
    a girl has no name _

    I don’t really think ur lifestyle is really unique or super different bc like where I grew up or like in Europe it’s not a must or the natural norm of a life to go to college after high school. So many ppl start working after high school so I don’t get that argument for getting married young but as you said it has a lot to do where you grew up and like cultural reasons. But like the reason many ppl are probably shocked is bc ppl change so much as a person in like their teens and twenties and therefore it’s nearly impossible to know if you met the person you want to be with for the rest of your days like as you said it’s something you shouldn’t take lightly and divorce ain’t an actual option. For example you loose and gain friends too bc you might feel like it’s not the same anymore and your just not vibing with each other like u used to bc ppl change and at such a young age ur still trying to find out who u really are. I thought I knew who i was when I was 18 but I changed so much in 3 years like I see and prioritise things sooo differently now it’s crazy. That might be why ppl question u or are surprised and of course it could be different for you but idk it just seems like a big risk.. even more if divorce is not an option for you.

    • Simply mia
      Simply mia

      Depends which European country you’re from, in the U.K. it’s the cultural norm to go to university and most people are getting married in their late 20s/30s.

  • Willow Vargas
    Willow Vargas

    I’m so happy for you 💗 congrats beautiful!

  • Izzi Spiridigliozzi
    Izzi Spiridigliozzi

    Girl all for you following your heart here, HOWEVER please do not see divorce as “not an option”. Sometimes divorce is the answer and no one should keep themselves in a toxic situation because they have an aversion to divorce. I am of course not implying that this is now or ever will be toxic, but forever is a long time and things can change. Just never say never.

    • cherish_chimx2
      cherish_chimx2

      yesssss! I used to think the same way as her but it's true, all relationships have the potential to become toxic. (I'm getting married very young as well at 20 and I recognize that it could end in divorce. That's just life.)

    • Izzi Spiridigliozzi
      Izzi Spiridigliozzi

      @SuperTRev ooook i see now, you're just a straight up intolerant bigot

    • Izzi Spiridigliozzi
      Izzi Spiridigliozzi

      @SuperTRev marriage is far more than a christian institution. it is the merging of lives. just because something used to be illegal doesn't mean anything, it used to be illegal for women to vote..times change. and you are acting like divorce is something an "evil women does to hurt a man." divorce is a mutual decision that two adults would come to an agreement upon. you are so clearly victimizing men here. there is nothing immoral about two people making a decision that is right for them, lets not hide your bigotry behind religion here. and furthermore, i am not a divorce advocate, i hope its something i never have to go through, but it is a part of life for some people and that doesn't make them immortal, a snake, or an evil person.

    • Izzi Spiridigliozzi
      Izzi Spiridigliozzi

      @SuperTRev or that i recognize that there is the possibly of somebody hurting me, even if i have done everything i can to make a marriage work. and in that situation, i acknowledge that i can make a choice to end said marriage. marriage takes two people and people change over time, hopefully you chance together but "forever" is a long time and people are very different at 50 then they were at 19.

  • Sreehitha Y
    Sreehitha Y

    I've been watching her since elementary school and honestly, she's very inspirational and I am so happy for her, she is like an older sister that I never had.

  • Missnataliepaige l
    Missnataliepaige l

    I would have gladly gotten married at 18 or 19 but my partner and i just didn't have the financial means to celebrate the way we wanted. That's honestly why most people don't, and anyone who has something to say about those who do are just bitter or jealous. don't mean those who wish to live differently or don't plan on getting married because those people who are genuinely "good" would have nothing negative to say. I'm 21 and can't wait to get married, but I am already committed and on the same page as my partner abut what we want. We just have to wait to celebrate our love the way we want because of the capitalistic world we live in. I don't agree with some things you have said or some beliefs you hold, but I hope i can give you extra comfort in the fact that you are aking the right choice for you and will have immense happiness and "success" in your own eyes and the world"s. :)

  • lil death punk
    lil death punk

    Congrats girlie pop 🥳

  • Susan Bowes
    Susan Bowes

    When you find love, you know it, so why not be together for life from the start. Enjoy the journey. All the best

  • Anne Whipp
    Anne Whipp

    It's been such a wonderful road to watch you from 4 years ago to now 😭 I'm so proud of you and all you've achieved, and congratulations on this new part of your life and this new and wonderful journey that you are embarking on. Ryan is a really wonderful and fantastic person, and I'm so happy for you both! Congratulations from South Africa

  • scuffed gamer47
    scuffed gamer47

    shes talking at super speed

  • Inés Herranz Alonso
    Inés Herranz Alonso

    This is so amazing❤️ love this video so much!

  • Alicia Salas
    Alicia Salas

    I'm HONESTLY so so SO proud and so so SO EXCITED for uguys I hope that this next chapter in ur guys life is filled with MUCH JOY HAPPINESS and BLESSINGS for the both of you and that uguys keep getting blessed with much HAPPINESS and BLESSINGS I'm TRULY EXCITED to see what is in ur guys future

  • yoshimi petshops
    yoshimi petshops

    you're amazing!!! I'm so happy for y'all. My brother and I were so excited when the engagement video came out. we've both been watching y'all for a long time, and this was such a cool moment for us. love y'all so much! ❤️

  • Lyna Achache
    Lyna Achache

    Yaaassss , I was waiting for that , and when the notification arrived ! I wassss sssoooo happy!!!!!!!! Congratulations

  • Puty0urlipstick0n
    Puty0urlipstick0n

    Sex is definitively NOT only 5% of a relationship L.O.L.

    • cherish_chimx2
      cherish_chimx2

      It's literally different for everyone and for every relationship. For my current relationship I'd say it's 15%. Past relationship it was 80% and that shit hit the fan pretty fast

    • Puty0urlipstick0n
      Puty0urlipstick0n

      @Siannon's more like 50%

    • Siannon's
      Siannon's

      2%

  • Valeria Bigott
    Valeria Bigott

    I've been subscribed for so long, and you seem just so genuinely happy around each other, bless you and congratulations!

  • De’Sandra Oshay
    De’Sandra Oshay

    Congratulations y’all 🥳❤️❤️

  • Vanessa Marie
    Vanessa Marie

    My husband and I got engaged at 16, married at 17, now I'm 19 and we're expecting our first baby. So when people tell you that you're moving TOO fast, I've heard ALL of it. My husband also asked both my parents for their blessing. He took them out to dinner and all I know is my dad did not hesitate and said "hell yeah!" Also, Congratulations Haley ❤ I've been watching you and Ryan since you started dating. It's been such a beautiful relationship and so fun to watch. I wish you both the best, long and happy marriage!

  • Nina Dragcevic
    Nina Dragcevic

    j

  • Tania Ramirez
    Tania Ramirez

    I got married at 19 and still am married 7 years later with a second baby on the way!! Def don’t let what others say doubt anything. You know what you guys want, I’m happy for both of you!! 💜

  • Chloe
    Chloe

    my parents dated for about 9 years before they got married and girl...i could never! i don't judge them for getting married so "late," that was their choice. and i don't judge you for getting married so "early," that's your choice. i'm happy that you and ryan are ready to take this important step in your lives together. i feel like a proud mother. i love you both. and congradulations!

  • Laelle Tuggy
    Laelle Tuggy

    Wow it was refreshing to hear she was waiting for marriage. I am too and have seen multiple videos where people one fun at us "conservative christians". It was just nice to see

  • Chelsea Loyd
    Chelsea Loyd

    I got engaged at 19 too so this is so nice to see someone else like that too

  • ATV Jeremy
    ATV Jeremy

    Married at 19? Kinda young if you ask me

    • Random Person
      Random Person

      It is young however everyone is ready at their own timing. If you know Haley she is very mature. It’s better than them messing around with each other and their emotions.

    • Casia-Jade Takai
      Casia-Jade Takai

      @bee obviously

    • bee
      bee

      You obviously didn't even watch the video honey.

  • Annmarie Gomes
    Annmarie Gomes

    You guys are both put together and have good heads on your shoulders. I've been watching you for s long time and I'm proud of you. Congratulations on your engagement Haley

  • blithxsome
    blithxsome

    Girlllll you called me Single in 26 languages

  • Emily Cepeda
    Emily Cepeda

    My parents got married at 19 and they just celebrated their 25th anniversary so don’t stress don’t worry God timing is always right

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    brsk

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